Regret Exists to Help You, Not Hinder You
On the advantages of regret and how you can learn from it
When I tried out for the cross-country running team, I not only became a better runner but I won seventh place in the regional finals.
For some reason, I didn’t try out for the team the next year but I did the year after that. After those two years, I decided to just quit.
I don’t know why I gave up so easily but I acted according to how I felt during the school year. I was shy growing up, so I either avoided extracurricular activities or eventually quit them.
My third-grade teacher had a lot to do with my decision to initially try out for cross-country running. He was always an encouraging coach and teacher. Throughout school, I had very few teachers who I felt understood me, so that positive reinforcement really helped.
However, I didn’t like the fourth grade. My friend and I had parted ways the year before, and I felt like I had to start from scratch, friendship-wise. I think this played a big part in why I didn’t try out for the team that year in between. I hardly felt comfortable talking to new people, so trying out for the team was a no-go.
I’m not sure whether I quit because I lost interest in running or because my third-grade teacher eventually transferred to another school — but I…
